Digital Social Hour

Julie Menanno: Fix Your Relationship: How Communication Heals Everything | DSH #1514

On this episode of Digital Social Hour, we dive deep into the science of love, attachment, and communication with therapist and author Julie. From childhood wounds to adult relationships, Julie explains how emotional safety, attachment theory, and love languages play a critical role in building lasting connection. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, stuck in conflict, or unsure how to truly connect with your partner — this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you need.

We also explore why modern dating feels so divided, how anxiety impacts relationships, and why accountability is the most important trait for love that lasts. Packed with real stories, practical advice, and breakthrough insights, this episode of Digital Social Hour is a must-watch for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship or heal from the past.

CHAPTERS:

0:00 – Why communication is the root of healthy relationships

1:22 – Attachment theory explained in simple terms

2:59 – Autism, social cues & being misunderstood

4:41 – Feeling heard, seen, and validated in relationships

7:38 – Childhood wounds & how they carry into adulthood

13:03 – Coping with anxiety, panic attacks & healing practices

16:06 – Red pill vs feminism: where the divide really comes from

18:25 – Love languages & learning your partner’s needs

22:27 – Breaking generational cycles with parents

29:11 – Online dating, checklists & modern relationship struggles

37:47 – Why people get defensive & how to work through it

42:21 – Channeling emotions in healthy ways vs ignoring them

49:22 – How to repair relationship ruptures the right way

53:40 – Why every relationship is fixable (if you’re willing)

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Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759

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Step into the world of unfiltered conversations with Digital Social Hour, the podcast where host Sean Kelly dives deep with some of the world's most controversial and thought-provoking figures. From trailblazing entrepreneurs to polarizing cultural icons, no topic is off-limits as Sean explores the stories, challenges, and triumphs that define their lives.

Get ready for bold questions, unexpected insights, and raw, authentic dialogue that challenges conventional thinking. Whether you’re seeking inspiration or just want to hear what others are too afraid to say, Digital Social Hour delivers the conversations that others won’t.


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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Julie Menanno, MA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and Relationship Coach. Julie operates a clinical therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana, and leads a global relationship coaching practice with a team of trained coaches. She is an expert in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples and specializes in attachment issues within relationships.

Julie is the author of the best-selling book Secure Love, published by Simon and Schuster in January 2024. She provides relationship insights to over 1.3 million Instagram followers and hosts The Secure Love Podcast, where she shares real-time couples coaching sessions to help listeners navigate relational challenges. Julie also hosts a bi-weekly discussion group on relationship and self-help topics. A sought-after public speaker and podcast guest, Julie is dedicated to helping individuals and couples foster secure, fulfilling relationships.

Julie lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband of 25 years, their six children, and their beloved dog. In her free time, she enjoys hiking, skiing, Pilates, reading psychology books, and studying Italian.

https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/
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