Attachment Based Relationship Tips
Looking to strengthen your relationship? Our blog offers expert relationship tips rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how to identify your attachment style, communicate more effectively, and foster emotional safety with your partner. From overcoming conflict to building deeper trust, our practical advice and tools, created by couples therapist Julie Menanno, are designed to help you move toward a secure and fulfilling connection. Dive in and start transforming your relationships today!
Let’s Talk Love- A Real Love Ready Podcast
In this episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin sits down with therapist, author, and attachment expert Julie Menanno to explore how we can create relationships that feel safe, connected, and enduring.
Terra’s Baddy Club
Join Terra Newell and Julie Menanno as they delve into the transformative power of self-work and emotional regulation.
Digital Social Hour
On this episode of Digital Social Hour, we dive deep into the science of love, attachment, and communication with therapist and author Julie.
Coping With Ghosting
Should you get back together with the person who ghosted you? How can you build a secure relationship after being ghosted?
Spiraling Higher Podcast
If you have ever been in a relationship, or supported someone in one, then you KNOW how distressing it is to deal with feeling like your partner doesn't care about your feelings OR as if their feelings are TOO MUCH.
Learn to Love Podcast
What does attachment theory say about how parents should raise their children? What are our adult attachment needs? How can couples break out of negative communication cycles?
From Mrs. to Ms.
Julie also shares actionable advice for anyone feeling stuck in conflict or disconnection, offering hope for singles navigating modern dating challenges like hookup culture and dating apps.
Not Your Ordinary Parts
Julie’s approach is not just therapeutic but transformational, offering practical tools for fostering trust, vulnerability, and emotional safety; foundations upon which healthy relationships thrive.
Being Well Podcast: Attachment Masterclass
We discuss the impact of anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment patterns, and provide practical advice on identifying and communicating attachment needs, fostering emotional safety, and addressing the common anxious-avoidant partner dynamic.
Being Well Podcast
In this special episode of Being Well, Forrest is joined by four leading experts for a masterclass on the science of attachment. Featuring conversations with Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Rick Hanson, Julie Mennano, and Elizabeth Ferreira.
The Invigor Medical Podcast
Julie explains that secure attachment is characterized by low fear and easy connection, while anxious attachment involves high fears of abandonment and aggressive attempts to reconnect.
The CLS Experience
Let’s talk about the secrets to creating more secure, empathetic, and resilient relationships.
The Sabrina Zohar Show
Julie emphasizes that healthy relationships aren't about accommodating each other's insecurities or avoiding triggers but about engaging in mutual growth and healing.
The Jen Hardy Show
Ever wondered why your partner pulls away just when you want to get closer? Or maybe you're the one who needs a bit of space when things get intense.
The Dude Therapist
A healthy relationship is defined by compatibility, shared values, and effective conflict management.
I Don't Think We Talk Enough About...
Whether you are single or in a relationship, I have a feeling that you will really enjoy this episode, as I did.
The Kim Gravel Show
Whether you're married, dating, or single, there's so much value in understanding how unmet needs and emotional connections shape our interactions.
The Release Podcast
We define attachment styles, examine how they can change depending on the relationship, and dive in to why the nervous system should be the first thing you worry about when trying to communicate with your partner.
WHOOP Podcast
Kristen and Julie discuss how Julie started working with couples, couples therapy vs individual therapy, finding optimism in couples therapy, characteristics of a healthy relationship, emotionally focused therapy, the four attachment styles, practicing secure love, red flags in a relationship, and the organization of Julie’s book.

Most couples believe that if they could just get on the same page, their conflicts would finally settle down. The problem is that agreement alone does not guarantee connection. You can agree and still feel unseen. You can disagree and stay deeply bonded.
In this meeting, Emotional Safety vs. Agreement, we will look at conflict through an emotional safety lens. We will explore what emotional safety actually feels like, what happens in the nervous system when safety drops, and how negative cycles begin when you and your partner stop feeling safe with each other.
You will learn:
The difference between emotional safety and agreement
How your nervous system reacts during conflict
How to recognize when safety has dropped between you
Emotional safety scripts you can use in real time
What to say less of and what to say more of when you want connection
How to repair after a moment where safety went missing
Thank you for doing this work with me and for your courage in looking at your patterns with honesty and compassion.