Julie Menanno
Founder of The Secure Relationship and author of Secure Love. She trains every coach on the team in EFT and attachment science. Sessions online, wherever you are.
Couples only, working with Julie directly.

- ◆Secure Love, published by Simon & Schuster in January 2024, a best seller that brings attachment theory together with steps couples can use
- ◆The Secure Love Podcast, where she coaches real couples
- ◆@thesecurerelationship, followed by close to a million people
A couple who wants Julie herself in the room
- ◆You want to work with Julie directly rather than with the team she trains
- ◆You are coming as a couple. Julie sees couples only
- ◆You have read the book or followed the account and want the person behind it
- ◆You want a concentrated week of work rather than an hour at a time
An hour at a time, or fourteen hours in one week
- Sixty minutes with Julie, as often as the two of you want to meet.
- At checkout you can add another hour or another thirty minutes to the same booking.
- Or the intensive: fourteen hours, two hours a day across one week, couples sessions combined with individual sessions for each partner.
- The full week is booked at once, so your dates are settled before you begin.
About Julie
Julie Menanno is the founder of The Secure Relationship, a global coaching practice, and she leads and trains the team of coaches who work with clients around the world. She earned her master’s degree in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute in Los Angeles and has spent her career helping couples and individuals build stronger relationships.
Her book Secure Love was published by Simon & Schuster in January 2024 and became a best seller, praised for an accessible and compassionate approach to the problems couples actually have. Her Instagram account, @thesecurerelationship, has become a trusted resource for close to a million followers, and she hosts The Secure Love Podcast, where she coaches real couples.
She also hosts a bi-weekly discussion group covering relational dynamics, emotional self-awareness and personal growth, and she is a sought after speaker and a frequent podcast guest on attachment, relationships and emotional wellness.
Away from the work
Julie has been married 25 years and is a mother of six children and one much loved dog. Her understanding of attachment is not only theory, it is informed by her own life as a partner and a parent. The family lives in Bozeman, Montana, where they hike, ski and spend as much time outdoors as they can. In her own time she does Pilates, reads psychology and is learning Italian.
What the booking asks of you
A short form first
After you pick a time you fill in your details, whether this is your first session with the team, how often you would like to meet, your partner’s name and email, and what you would like Julie to know beforehand.
Pay now or reserve
You can pay at the end, or reserve the time without paying and settle before the session.
Canceling
Appointments must be canceled 48 hours in advance. Later than that and the full session is charged.
Considering the intensive? The fit call is free
Fifteen minutes with Julie to talk through what is going on and whether the intensive is the right fit. If it is not, she will help you find something that is.
