Build a Secure Love.

Evidence-based courses, coaching, and resources from Julie Menanno and The Secure Relationship to guide you—and the people you care about—into lasting, secure connection.

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National Bestselling Book

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Introducing Julie Menanno’s Nationally Bestselling book ….

Secure Love

Create a lasting, loving bond in your relationship with this concrete advice to develop a secure attachment from the expert couple’s therapist behind the popular Instagram account @TheSecureRelationship.

Expert Attachment Theory Relationship Coaches

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About Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Julie is a trailblazing therapist, author, educator, a masterful interpreter of Attachment Theory, and an Architect of Emotional Connection who is continually working to bridge the gap between complex psychological concepts and everyday struggles. As a revolutionary force in the world of relationships, Julie’s work has transformed the way we understand emotional intimacy and human connection. Julie is the creator of The Secure Relationship, a platform that has reached millions worldwide, with a mission to dismantle the barriers that keep people from experiencing the joy of deeply connected, secure relationships.

In a world increasingly disconnected by technology and societal pressures, Julie stands as a guiding light, reminding us that love and connection are not just desires but essential human needs and with every conversation, every session, and every word, Julie transforms lives, one secure relationship at a time.

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Having attachment needs doesn’t make you needy.
Met attachment needs are simply what’s necessary to feel close to another person; they don’t make you whole, but they do make a loving relationship whole.
— Julie Menanno, Secure Love

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