RELATIONSHIP COACH
Joshua Ollswang
More than 15 years of experience. Trained in EFT, Gottman, IFS and interpersonal neurobiology. Sessions online, wherever you are.
For trauma recovery, and for intimacy that has gone quiet.
◆ Trained in EFT ◆ Trauma informed ◆ Quoted in the New York Times ◆ Couples and individuals
“Together, we’ll identify barriers to connection, develop healthier relational patterns, and create the space for shared healing and relief.”
Joshua Ollswang
Book with Joshua
Book a session
$500 an hour. Sessions online, wherever you are. You can reserve a time without paying.
Coaching session
$500
Sixty minutes online, as a couple or on your own. His calendar opens a few hours at a time, so join the waitlist if nothing suits. At checkout you can add another hour ($500) or 30 minutes ($250).
◆ Sessions run online, wherever you are ◆ Couples and individuals both welcome ◆ You can reserve a time without paying ◆ Cancel 48 hours ahead or the session is charged in full
Come to Joshua if you are
Carrying something older than the argument you keep having
Trauma keeps surfacing in the relationship and you want it worked with, not around
Emotional intimacy has gone quiet and you want it back
You want a coach who works across several models rather than inside one
Communication has broken down and you need practical tools alongside the deeper work
How Joshua works
Several models, chosen for what is actually in the room
He draws on EFT, Gottman, IFS and interpersonal neurobiology rather than working inside one model.
The approach is trauma informed, so the past gets room instead of being stepped around.
Together you find the barriers to connection and the patterns sitting underneath them.
From there you build healthier patterns and the practical strategies that hold them.
In Joshua’s words
I have spent more than 15 years helping individuals and couples work through challenges and build deeper connections. I specialize in guiding clients toward healing relationships, strengthening emotional intimacy, and building meaningful, secure partnerships.
As a trauma informed relationship coach I draw from evidence based approaches including EFT, Gottman, IFS and interpersonal neurobiology, along with attachment based coaching that looks at the emotional and relational patterns shaping how you are with each other. My style is grounded in compassion, insight and practical strategy.
I hold master’s degrees in clinical mental health interventions from the University of Chicago and in psychotherapeutic theories from the European Graduate School in Switzerland. I have also studied relational expressivity, meaningful connection and the nuances of communication at Stanford University, The Juilliard School and the London School of Economics. My research and presentations have focused on gender roles, collaborative empowerment and the theories that inform our emotional lives.
A collaborative space
“In my coaching, I aim to create a collaborative, non-judgmental space where you can explore challenges and uncover strengths. Whether you’re navigating disconnection in your relationship, recovering from trauma, or looking for guidance in building trust and intimacy, I’m here to support you every step of the way.”
Before you book
What the booking asks of you
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The form asks for your contact details, who the coaching is for, how often you would like to meet, a date of birth for everyone being seen, and an emergency contact. There are also agreements to read, including a waiver and a consent to record, which you can decline without it affecting your booking.
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At checkout you can pay for the session, or choose Reserve Without Paying to hold the time. You can also add another hour or 30 minutes to the session at checkout.
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Appointments must be canceled 48 hours in advance. If you’re unable to cancel 48 hours in advance you’ll be charged for the full session.
Ready when you are
Sixty minutes, online, wherever you are
As a couple or on your own. You can hold the time without paying and settle before the session. If nothing on his calendar suits, the waitlist is the way in.