Real couples therapy, one session at a time.
Sit in the therapy room with licensed therapist Julie Menanno as she guides real couples out of the anxious–avoidant cycle and into secure, lasting love.
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment theory, each episode unpacks the negative cycles, old wounds, and communication breakdowns underneath everyday conflict — and shows you exactly how change happens.
What this podcast helps you understand
Every episode is grounded in the same attachment tools we teach across the site. Follow a thread that speaks to your relationship:
Bring your relationship into the room
Are you and your partner open to exploring your relationship with guidance from Julie Menanno while helping others learn through your journey? We're looking for couples for an upcoming season of real-time recorded sessions. Both partners must participate in the application process.
Session 16: "Full Breathable Lungs": The Power of Vulnerability
The power of vulnerability is what happens when a fear you've hidden for years is finally met with care. In Session 16, a small fight about mulch leads Brian to risk his deepest 'less than' fear—and to breathe, he says, with full breathable lungs.
Session 5: I Didn't Get Married to Throw it All Away
What is the cost of being the partner left behind in silence? Julie Menanno turns to Bethany's experience of Brian's threats to leave—and reveals how speaking from pure vulnerability can bypass defenses and shift the whole cycle.
The Journey Toward a Secure Love (Season Finale)
The opposite of shame isn't perfect behavior—it's self-acceptance. In the Season 1 finale, Julie Menanno leads Drew through shame work so he can accept himself even when he's reactive, opening the door to deeper connection and co-regulation with Melissa.