Available to couples anywhere in the world
Online Couples Intensives
Rebuild your connection in days, not months. A private, attachment-based intensive with Julie Menanno or Jaime Cecutti: an immersive deep-dive that breaks negative cycles and restores closeness, delivered online wherever you are.
“Having attachment needs doesn’t make you needy.”
Julie Menanno
100+ countries
Where The Secure Relationship's method has already helped people
13 to 14 hours
Of focused work with your coach, online, from wherever you are
Secure Love
Julie Menanno's national bestselling book, the framework behind every intensive
Free fit call
Fifteen minutes to see whether an intensive fits, with nothing due to book
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What is a couples intensive?
A couples intensive is an extended, deeply focused coaching experience that compresses months of relationship progress into one concentrated block of time.
Instead of a weekly session, you and your partner work with an attachment-trained coach to understand what keeps pulling you apart and to build the tools that bring you back together. Most relationship pain isn't about love running out. It's about attachment patterns and negative cycles no one ever taught you to see.
A couples intensive
A concentrated block of 13 to 14 hours. You build on insight while it's still fresh, which suits busy schedules, couples stuck in the same fight, and big transitions.
Weekly coaching
A regular session with a coach, one week at a time, at a steadier pace. See relationship coaching.
One
Fit call and prep
It starts with a free 15-minute fit call to see whether an intensive is right for you. Before you begin, your coach gets to know your history, your patterns and your goals.
A free fit call, with nothing due to book
Your history, patterns and goals, shared ahead of time
A private space and a stable connection, wherever you are
Goal: your coach understands you from the first minute.
The experience
How your intensive works
Every intensive is tailored to your relationship, with a clear beginning, a deep middle and lasting follow-through. It's built on Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment theory, the same framework behind Secure Love.
Two
The deep-dive
A concentrated block of focused work, spent mapping your cycle and building new tools in real time.
Your negative cycle, mapped together
Each partner's attachment patterns
Real-time, expert guidance from your coach
Goal: a clear map of what's been driving your disconnection.
Three
Practice and follow-through
You don't just talk about change. You practice it live, then leave with what you need to keep going.
Communicating needs without triggering conflict
Interrupting the cycle as it starts
Follow-up support to protect your progress
Goal: the ability to recognize and interrupt your negative cycle in the moment.
What you'll walk away with
A clear map of what's been driving your disconnection
New ways to communicate needs without sparking conflict
Renewed clarity, closeness and commitment
A foundation for a secure, emotionally safe relationship
Whether you're in crisis or simply ready for a focused reset, an intensive meets you where you are.
Choose your intensive
Two coaches, two intensives
Both are online, for couples, and begin with a free 15-minute fit call, so you can be sure it fits before you commit.
Jaime Cecutti, Certified in EFT
$5,200
Thirteen hours with Jaime across one weekend, plus a commitment to at least eight weeks of coaching afterward. Nothing is due to book the fit call or hold dates.
Julie Menanno, Founder
$10,500
Fourteen hours with Julie, two hours a day across one week, couples sessions combined with individual sessions for each partner. Billed hourly as you go, with nothing due at booking.
◆ Online, wherever you are ◆ Couples only ◆ Free 15-minute fit call ◆ Nothing due to book the call
Questions, answered
Couples intensive FAQs
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A couples intensive is an extended, focused coaching experience that compresses months of relationship progress into one concentrated block of time. Instead of a weekly session, you and your partner work with a coach to map your negative cycle, understand your attachment patterns and build practical tools for communication and connection.
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Yes. Intensives are delivered securely over video, so you and your partner can take part from your own home, anywhere in the world. All you need is a private space, a stable connection and a willingness to grow together.
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It depends on your coach. Jaime Cecutti's intensive is 13 hours across one weekend, followed by at least eight weeks of coaching. Julie Menanno's intensive is 14 hours, two hours a day across one week, with couples sessions and individual sessions for each partner.
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Jaime's intensive is $5,200. Julie's is $10,500, billed hourly as you go. Both start with a free 15-minute fit call, and nothing is due to book it.
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Choose your coach and book a free 15-minute fit call. You'll talk through whether an intensive is the right fit before you commit to anything.
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No. Our couples intensives are coaching and education, rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. They are not a substitute for therapy or mental health treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact a licensed professional or your local emergency services.
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No. A marriage intensive is the same focused format, and our intensives are open to any committed couple, married or not. You get the same concentrated hours with Julie or Jaime, the same attachment-based approach and the same free fit call to start.
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It tends to help most when weekly sessions feel too slow to get past the same fight. The concentrated hours give you room to map your negative cycle, understand what drives it and practice a new way of talking before old habits pull you back. If you’re unsure, the free 15-minute fit call is there to help you decide before you commit.
Ready when you are
Start with a free fit call
Fifteen minutes with your coach to see whether an intensive fits, online from anywhere in the world. Nothing is due to book.