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Negative Cycles, Book Club Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC 6/11/25 Negative Cycles, Book Club Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC 6/11/25

Preventing Your Negative Cycle: Chapter 6 of the Secure Love Book Club

Learn how to turn everyday interactions into an “attachment-friendly” environment, swap reflexive fight-or-flight reactions for healthy connection, and use Julie’s E-V-I-C-T framework to keep shame (and negative cycles) out of your relationship.

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