Attachment Based Relationship Tips
Looking to strengthen your relationship? Our blog offers expert relationship tips rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how to identify your attachment style, communicate more effectively, and foster emotional safety with your partner. From overcoming conflict to building deeper trust, our practical advice and tools, created by couples therapist Julie Menanno, are designed to help you move toward a secure and fulfilling connection. Dive in and start transforming your relationships today!
The Trouble Club Podcast
Ever wondered why you and your partner have the same fight over and over, why insecure attachment negatively impacts a couple's sex life and how to restore that sexual connection?
Legacy Impact Coaching: Unlocking Relationship Sucess
In this video, I sit down with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Julie Menanno to discuss Attachment Theory & Attachment Styles.
The Best Relationship Podcast
In this insightful conversation, Julie and Philippe delve into the true meaning of secure love, based on the principles in Julie's latest book.
Good Mourning
Loss impacts relationships—some grow stronger, some strain, and some fracture entirely. So, how can we cultivate relationships that feel secure and safe as we navigate life’s challenges?
That Relationship Show
Julie helps us understand how to transform our anger, pain or resentment into validating boundaried conversations that are likely to both get us what we want and protect our relationship bonds.
The Blueprint Podcast
The discussion covers a range of topics, including the impact of childhood attachment on adult relationships, the challenges posed by technology in maintaining healthy attachments, and the different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized.
The Dr. Drew Podcast
Julie offers invaluable insights into the roots of insecurity within relationships and breaks down the four different attachment types.
The Feeling Lighter Podcast
We discuss attachment theory and how the different attachment styles of avoidant, anxious, and secure play out in romantic relationships.
Becoming Zesty Podcast
Megan and Julie talk about the importance of ongoing conversations to process and heal from past wounds in their relationship.
The Heartbeat
Julie explains how the modern world has led to an increase in insecure attachment and offers insights into how we can shift towards a more secure and fulfilling relationship dynamic.
Reimagining Love
What does it feel like to be in a securely attached relationship? Renowned relationship expert and therapist Julie Menanno joins Reimagining Love to illuminate what we can learn from examining secure attachments.
Fried Podcast
To be understood is one of our most deep-seated needs. Some of us think we are practicing empathy when actually we have just learned to be hyper-vigilant of others emotions, in order to form our reaction ahead of time.
The Bright Side of Life Podcast
Discover the fundamental principles of attachment theory and gain invaluable insights into the different attachment styles that shape our interactions.
Power Hour
Moving from the way things look to others to the way they feel, this is a ground-breaking guide to secure attachment in adult relationships.
On Attachment
Our conversation covers a lot of ground, including: A deeper look at the fear of abandonment in anxious attachment; Key challenges of avoidant attachment; Negative cycles in anxious-avoidant relationships
Diary Of An Empath Podcast
The conversation explores common issues in couples, the different attachment styles, and the impact of attachment styles on the sex life of individuals.
The Best Of The Love Lab Podcast
Do you feel anxious in your relationship? Do you sometimes avoid the difficult situations that inevitably arise in relationships?
The Sharon McLaughlin Show-Power of Peacefulness and Stress Relief
Julie shares her motivation for entering couples therapy, rooted in her desire to be a better parent.Growing up in a home with emotional challenges, she aimed to create a happy family to heal her own wounds.
Exploring Attachment Needs and Relationships with Julie Menanno on the Not Alone Podcast
The core idea of attachment theory is that humans, as social beings, have an innate need to form close emotional bonds and attachments with others.

Most couples believe that if they could just get on the same page, their conflicts would finally settle down. The problem is that agreement alone does not guarantee connection. You can agree and still feel unseen. You can disagree and stay deeply bonded.
In this meeting, Emotional Safety vs. Agreement, we will look at conflict through an emotional safety lens. We will explore what emotional safety actually feels like, what happens in the nervous system when safety drops, and how negative cycles begin when you and your partner stop feeling safe with each other.
You will learn:
The difference between emotional safety and agreement
How your nervous system reacts during conflict
How to recognize when safety has dropped between you
Emotional safety scripts you can use in real time
What to say less of and what to say more of when you want connection
How to repair after a moment where safety went missing
Thank you for doing this work with me and for your courage in looking at your patterns with honesty and compassion.