What’s Really Behind All That Anger in Your Relationship

How unspoken resentment can keep couples stuck

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When anger keeps showing up in your relationship, even in small ways, it often signals that something deeper needs attention. In this group meeting, Julie talks about the role anger can play in keeping couples stuck. She explores why some people struggle to express anger at all, why others express it in ways that don’t get heard, and how both can block emotional connection.

Julie explains that anger is often a protective response. Underneath, there may be hurt, fear, shame, or grief. And until those deeper layers are acknowledged, the anger doesn’t go away. She shares tools for doing self-work with anger, including how to name it, validate it, and understand what it’s trying to signal. She also guides the group through how to bring anger into the relationship in ways that support connection rather than conflict.

If you’ve felt stuck in resentment, or unsure how to deal with your partner’s anger, this conversation can help clarify the next step.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Julie Menanno, MA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and Relationship Coach. Julie operates a clinical therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana, and leads a global relationship coaching practice with a team of trained coaches. She is an expert in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples and specializes in attachment issues within relationships.

Julie is the author of the best-selling book Secure Love, published by Simon and Schuster in January 2024. She provides relationship insights to over 1.3 million Instagram followers and hosts The Secure Love Podcast, where she shares real-time couples coaching sessions to help listeners navigate relational challenges. Julie also hosts a bi-weekly discussion group on relationship and self-help topics. A sought-after public speaker and podcast guest, Julie is dedicated to helping individuals and couples foster secure, fulfilling relationships.

Julie lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband of 25 years, their six children, and their beloved dog. In her free time, she enjoys hiking, skiing, Pilates, reading psychology books, and studying Italian.

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