Why Your Relationship Keeps Having the Same Fight (and How to Finally Change It)

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Ever feel like every discussion with your partner spirals into the same fight? That’s your negative cycle—and last night Julie showed her group exactly how to identify, slow, and finally change it.

In the full replay (members only) you’ll learn:

  • The single question every argument is secretly asking.

  • Why anxious partners “protest” and avoidant partners “shut down”—and how both can respond differently.

  • A simple three-step check-in that stops an argument mid-spin.

Ready to see the full training? Join Julie’s Group for bi-weekly live sessions, replays, Q&A, and community support.

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This group provides the perfect combination of expert advice, community support, and ongoing learning to help you and your relationship thrive.


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Stabilize the cycle first—then everything else finally has room to heal.
— Julie Menanno

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Julie Menanno, MA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and Relationship Coach. Julie operates a clinical therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana, and leads a global relationship coaching practice with a team of trained coaches. She is an expert in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples and specializes in attachment issues within relationships.

Julie is the author of the best-selling book Secure Love, published by Simon and Schuster in January 2024. She provides relationship insights to over 1.3 million Instagram followers and hosts The Secure Love Podcast, where she shares real-time couples coaching sessions to help listeners navigate relational challenges. Julie also hosts a bi-weekly discussion group on relationship and self-help topics. A sought-after public speaker and podcast guest, Julie is dedicated to helping individuals and couples foster secure, fulfilling relationships.

Julie lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband of 25 years, their six children, and their beloved dog. In her free time, she enjoys hiking, skiing, Pilates, reading psychology books, and studying Italian.

https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/
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