Attachment Based Relationship Tips

Looking to strengthen your relationship? Our blog offers expert relationship tips rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how to identify your attachment style, communicate more effectively, and foster emotional safety with your partner. From overcoming conflict to building deeper trust, our practical advice and tools, created by couples therapist Julie Menanno, are designed to help you move toward a secure and fulfilling connection. Dive in and start transforming your relationships today!

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From Mrs. to Ms.

Julie also shares actionable advice for anyone feeling stuck in conflict or disconnection, offering hope for singles navigating modern dating challenges like hookup culture and dating apps.

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Not Your Ordinary Parts

Julie’s approach is not just therapeutic but transformational, offering practical tools for fostering trust, vulnerability, and emotional safety; foundations upon which healthy relationships thrive.

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BizBlend

The discussion extends to applying EFT principles in workplace settings, fostering emotionally safe environments, and improving team collaboration.

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Being Well Podcast: Attachment Masterclass

We discuss the impact of anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment patterns, and provide practical advice on identifying and communicating attachment needs, fostering emotional safety, and addressing the common anxious-avoidant partner dynamic.

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Being Well Podcast

In this special episode of Being Well, Forrest is joined by four leading experts for a masterclass on the science of attachment. Featuring conversations with Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Rick Hanson, Julie Mennano, and Elizabeth Ferreira.

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Why self regulation might not be working

Discover why self regulation might feel out of reach, the barriers that hinder it, and actionable steps to build emotional resilience and connection.

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Understanding Disorganized Attachment

Disorganized attachment is what happens when your nervous system wants closeness and fears it at the same time. This guide explains the signs of disorganized attachment in relationships, why it develops, and the practical steps that help you move toward security.

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Understanding Avoidant Attachment

Avoidant attachment is not “not caring.” It’s a protective strategy built around shame, fear of failure, and a deep need to feel competent and acceptable. Here’s what it looks like, what it means, and how healing begins.

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Understanding Anxious Attachment Style: A Partner’s Perspective

Anxious attachment is often driven by fear of abandonment and a strong need for emotional validation. This post explains the roots of an anxious attachment style, how it impacts relationships, and the practical steps that help both partners build more security.

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Relationship Challenge from a Couples Therapist

Couples who strengthen their emotional connection often find that many of their problems start to resolve naturally. Try setting aside desired outcomes temporarily, and focus instead on creating emotional safety through open, supportive dialogue.

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The Protest Behaviors in Relationships

Learn how protest behaviors create negative cycles in relationships, their underlying causes, and actionable steps to foster healthier communication

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