When should you speak up for yourself, and when should your partner have stood up for you? In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno explores healthy assertion: standing up for your own feelings, needs, truths, and safety, and for the people you love, including your children and your partner. Using real examples, she builds insight into when and how it is appropriate to speak up, rather than handing you rigid rules. You will come away with a clearer sense of how to advocate for yourself and your relationship without tipping into aggression on one side or self-abandonment on the other, and how to know when your partner's silence in a hard moment actually mattered. Valuable for anyone who tends to stay quiet to keep the peace, or who has wondered whether their partner should have had their back. The full teaching is inside for members.