Is this the live workshop, or something different?

It is the live workshop, taught by Julie and George in September 2026, edited into a course. The teaching is the same. What is gone is the waiting, the tech trouble, the break, and the clock. What is added is structure, so you can take it in pieces and come back to any lesson.

I attended the live workshop. Do I need to buy this?

No. If you registered for the live workshop, this is already in your account at no extra cost.

How long do I have access?

For good. One purchase, no subscription, no expiry date. Come back to it in a year if that is when you need it.

Do I have to take it with my partner?

No, and a lot of people do not. The exercises are written so they work either way. Understanding your own position and your own protective moves changes how you show up, even if your partner never watches a minute of it.

Can we both watch on one login?

Yes, if you are watching together on the same screen. Two separate logins need two purchases.

What if my partner is hesitant?

Very common, and worth knowing that this course does not make one of you the problem. Neither of you is the bad guy in it. The cycle is. A lot of hesitant partners find that easier to sit through than advice that starts by telling them what they are doing wrong.

Do I need to know anything about attachment theory first?

Nothing at all. Julie builds it from the ground up. If you already know the material, the sexual cycle layer will still be new, because almost nobody teaches it.

Direct. Julie and George use plain language and specific examples, including what to say and what people actually like. Nothing is shown. But it is a real conversation about sex, not a careful one, so it is not one to have playing with children in the room.

No. It is teaching. Julie is a therapist and George is a certified EFT trainer, and they are both clear in the course that this is not treatment and is not a substitute for it.

What if we have been sexless for years?

You are in a lot of company, and it comes up directly in the course. George is asked what is realistic for a couple who have not had sex in more than five years, and he answers it. Short version: he has never seen a couple where both people were motivated who did not get there.

What if there has been a betrayal, or a trauma?

That is in here too. There are questions in the final chapter about sexual trauma, about coercion inside a marriage, about harmful religious teaching, and about rebuilding after illness. Julie and George answer all of them carefully, and they are honest about where a professional needs to be involved.

Can I watch a lesson before I buy?

Yes. The Criss-Cross lesson is free to watch. It is the one that tends to make people sit up.

Yes, the complete workshop slides as a PDF, including the full eleven category BEST SEX TALK inventory so you can score it together.

$249, one time. Secure Love Club members pay $186.75.

CHAPTER 3 - YOUR FOUR POSITIONS

The Criss-Cross

The very common pattern where the emotional pursuer is the sexual withdrawer, plus the double pursuer, the double withdrawer, and the burnout pursuer.