How do we slowly disappear in the name of staying connected? In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno explores identity loss: the gradual way people begin prioritizing the relationship over their own self, needs, and desires until they barely recognize themselves. She traces it to environments where simply being yourself always carried a cost, conflict, criticism, withdrawal, or the fear of abandonment, which teaches the nervous system to prioritize safety over authenticity. What began as a child's survival strategy keeps running in adulthood as self-erasure and quiet shame. Julie shows how to recognize the pattern and begin reclaiming who you are without blowing up the relationship. You will learn why you lost yourself and how to slowly return. Moving and validating for anyone who has lost touch with their own identity inside a relationship. The full teaching is inside for members.