Is your partner avoidant, or a narcissist? Codependent, or just over-functioning? In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno untangles the popular labels people apply to relationships, narcissism, codependency, attachment styles, and shows how they all connect back to attachment theory rather than being simply right or wrong. Prompted by the debates she sees in her podcast comments, she starts from the core truth that humans crave connection and secure attachment and cannot feel okay without it, even those who loudly disavow the need. You will learn how these labels overlap, where they mislead, and how an attachment lens offers more compassion and more usable insight than diagnosis-slinging. Clarifying and non-judgmental for anyone confused by the flood of relationship labels online and wanting to understand what is really underneath them. The full teaching is inside for members.