So much of relationship health comes down to two skills: raising a concern well, and receiving one without getting defensive. In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno works live with members on both sides of that exchange, including a rich conversation about how to accurately identify your own attachment style when you feel confused between anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. She offers a clarifying question, when everything is on the line, do you fear emotional or physical abandonment, or do you fear failing, and practical guidance for approaching hard conversations with more safety. You will learn how to bring up something difficult without triggering the cycle, and how to stay open when your partner brings something to you. Insightful and hands-on for anyone who wants to raise and receive concerns with more security and less reactivity. The full session is inside for members.