Does one of you carry all the responsibility in a certain area of the relationship while the other seems to carry none? In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno explains the overfunctioning and underfunctioning dynamic that leaves so many couples stuck, resentful, and out of balance. Whether it shows up in finances, emotional labor, planning, or parenting, she shows how one partner takes on everything while the other steps back, and how, surprisingly, both partners usually play a role in maintaining the status quo. You will learn to spot the pattern in your own relationship, understand what keeps it locked in place, and see why simply doing more or nagging harder never fixes it. Insightful and practical for any couple tired of the caretaker-and-slacker trap and ready to rebalance the load. The full teaching is inside for members.