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Episode #17- The Art of Validation

Julie delved into emotional validation, comparing it to food for our human need to feel good and safe. Julie emphasized that emotional validation isn't frivolous but a real need for feeling secure and thriving. She discussed how people seek validation unconsciously, emphasizing its importance for relationships and personal well-being. Julie addressed misunderstandings about validation, debunking the notion that it encourages bad behavior. She highlighted the role of emotional validation in creating a sense of security, leading to better behavior, self-care, and reduced anxiety and depression. Julie also explored the consequences of lacking validation, which can lead to feelings of insecurity, loneliness, and acting out.

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