In this Secure Love Club session, Julie Menanno revisits one of the most relatable patterns in insecure relationships: the anxious partner and lots of words. She explains how anxious partners spin, protest, and repeat themselves as a way to manage the fear of not being heard, how avoidant partners have their own wordy version full of rationalizing, tangents, and over-explaining, and why both are really ways of avoiding deeper, more vulnerable feelings without realizing it. You will learn why more words so often create more distance, how to recognize when you are spinning, and how to get underneath the words to what you actually feel and need. Julie also shares why two lots-of-words partners can be especially hard to help, and how to break through. Insightful and compassionate for anyone who talks in circles when they most want to be understood. The full teaching is inside for members.