This meeting, led by Julie, focused on discussing sex and secure relationships. Julie emphasized the importance of addressing sexual issues within a relationship and acknowledged that some couples may not be interested in a sex life, which is fine as long as both partners are on the same page. Participants raised questions about the emotional aspects of sex and how attachment styles can impact sexual desire and fulfillment. Julie highlighted the significance of feeling sexually valued, wanted, and secure in a relationship, as well as the need for communication and respect for sexual boundaries. She also discussed the balance between safety and vulnerability in sexual expression, comparing it to the thrill of taking risks while skiing down an unfamiliar slope.